Oprah

I think Oprah just hit something on the head. She said something to the effect that one reason we chubby girls keep the weight on our bodies is because we feel incapable of being loved.

A light just went off in my head. I think she's right.

It's so easy to be the funny girl, weird girl, or the best friend when you know that no guy will ever be intersted or fall in love with you.

I just thought of a good example for those of you who think we don't really think this way.

Anytime a guy tells me I'm beautiful the first thing I ask them is, "What do you want?". Because, I don't think a guy could ever be attracted to me willingly--he always wants something else in return.

I really do use that line. I think it pisses guys off, but it's truly how I feel.